🤝 To be written by the founding 100
Marriage & relationships
One thing we'll say up front, because it's about facts rather than experience: the "80% of marriages fail" statistic is a myth — credible research clusters around 25–30%, elevated but nothing like the catastrophe you've been told. Everything else on this page will come from founding parents living it.
Two parallel tracks, both waiting for their authors
Protecting the partnership you have
Workload, money, grief pacing, permanent background stress — and what couples who make it actually do differently. Founders' honest accounts, anonymous as needed.
Single parenting, after
Custody with a special-needs child, diagnosis-denial by an ex, the brutal pivot to full-time care — and how single founders last the distance.
Founders: this is the hardest section to write and the one that helps the most. The
Marriage & relationships room holds both tracks with
equal care — what's said there stays there.
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